Will Young says ‘shame’ over sexuality led to porn and alcohol addiction
The singer also attacked the UK government’s approach to sexual education in schools.
Will Young says he became addicted to alcohol, sex, porn and shopping as he struggled to cope with the āshameā of his sexuality.
The Pop Idol winner also admitted to taking drugs – saying they helped him in āmasking and aiding a huge voidā.
Speaking at National Student Pride 2016, Young said: āI was a love addict, I still am an addict, addicted to porn, certainly addicted to alcohol.
āIād never been on a date without having at least two drinks before Iād left the house and I didnāt even notice that was a problem.
āDrugs I didnāt really get into. I toyed around with it, but it didnāt really stick with me so much.ā
Since coming out at the age of 21, Young – who recently featured a trans man in one of his music videos – says he has suffered ā17 years of shameā.
āI will keep coming back to shame because itās such a fundamental thing,” he explained.
āUntil I conquered it I just kept having sex to fill the void, watching porn, shopping, anything, and I think we are told that as soon as we come out everything will be OK, but itās just not the case.”
“It is different being a young LGBT person because if you are heterosexual you are not dealing with a huge backlog of sexual shame and shame of your identity.ā
The Jealousy singer is now campaigning to get lessons on sexuality taught to children from a younger age – but says he came away from a meeting with Secretary of State for Education Nicky Morgan “incredibly disappointed.”
āThe problem with homophobic language is that in schools it is simply not being addressed,” he said.
“My prime focus now is young LGBT rights and I think what lies beneath that is people just donāt think itās an issue.ā
āWhat Iāve noticed in witnessing statistics is there is a huge void where the government is not focusing on nurturing young LGBT people in schools.
āWe are basically all different and we cannot be the same,” he added.
āSo to promote Ādifference in schools would just allow everyone to grow up more accepting and loving.ā