Couple shocked to find restaurant called them ‘lesbians’ on receipt

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A couple were horrified when a restaurant referred to them as ā€˜lesbiansā€™ on their receipt.

Same-sex couple Belinda Mulcahy and Jo James had been celebrating Belindaā€™s birthday earlier this month with a meal out while staying at Hafan y MĆ“r Holiday Park in Pwllheli, North Wales.

The pair ate their meal without incident, sitting alone together ā€“ but when the time came to pay the bill they were shocked at what they found on the receipt.

Above the amount to be paid, Jo noticed the word ā€˜LESBIANSā€™. The pair complained and were told that their table had been manually given the name by a staff member.

Couple shocked to find restaurant called them ‘lesbians’ on receipt

A friend of the pair told PinkNews: ā€œEven though itā€™s true, they were outraged by it. Why on earth would they put on a receipt? I canā€™t imagine theyā€™d write Jews or Blacks or even Disabled.ā€

Speaking to Diva Magazine, Ms James said: ā€œBelinda looked at me and she said, ā€˜Are you alright?ā€™ I showed her and she was speechless.

ā€œWe hadnā€™t done anything overt. We hadnā€™t been kissing at the bar or holding hands. We could have been friends. We could have been relations.

ā€œWe could have been a whole host of things. So the fact he decided to identify us as lesbians was a bit horrifying.

ā€œWe were shocked at how stupid this man had been.

ā€œI donā€™t know what upon earth possessed the staff member a) to write it and b) to hand me the receipt with it on.ā€


The manager apparently gave the staff member responsible a ā€˜telling offā€™, before offering the women free drinks as compensation.

However, the pair say the apology doesnā€™t come close to making it right.

A statement from the holiday park says: ā€œThis incident should not have occurred and we are sorry for any distress caused.

ā€œFollowing an investigation conducted by management, the individual concerned has been subject to internal disciplinary action.

ā€œOur team members will also undertake refreshed training courses to ensure that an incident like this does not occur in the future.ā€

Another gay couple recently complained when a restaurant refused to serve them an ice cream sundae to share.