Tampax at centre of ‘transphobic’ Twitter pile-on over tampon joke tweet
Conservative and anti-trans voices called for a mass boycott of Tampax after the period product company shared a saucy joke on Twitter. (Twitter/Tampax/Getty)
Tampax sparked a social media firestorm after it was accused of “sexualising women” over a joke tweet and, predictably, so-called ‘gender-critical’ folks were deeply triggered.
The US branch of the period product company tweeted on Monday (21 November) a joke about tampons that is a spoof of a popular internet meme. The brand wrote: “You’re in their DMs. We’re in them. We are not the same.”
The classic meme features the lines “you are in their direct messages”, when someone slides into another person’s inbox to profess some intimate or romantically-inclined intentions, and is followed by the phrase “I am…”.
It suggests the person posting the meme is closer than the one trying their luck in the DMs.
https://twitter.com/Tampax/status/1594719218632720385
Initially, the lighthearted, if slightly spicy, tweet was well received with people understanding it was indeed a joke.
Actor Angela Belcamino quipped Tampax was “out for blood” with the jest while another Twitter user called for the company to “give their social media manager a raise for these tweets”.
However, the tweet ruffled the feathers of conservative and ‘gender-critical’ voices online who believed the edgy joke sexualises periods and the people who experience them.
#BoycottTampax
The collective outrage over the tweet caused the hashtag #BoycottTampax to trend on Twitter, with people calling for those who experience periods to stop buying the company’s products.
One user wrote: “That is a revolting statement. You [Tampax] are providers/manufacturers of a serviceable product used for women and girls’ menstrual care.
“That you can even frame this as being inside us is just insulting. Feel shame and show some respect to the women and girls who are your customers.”
Another added: “Real weird for a company that sells products made for woman’s natural bodily functions to make a tweet sexualising women for using their products…. lmfao fire your social media manager, this is gross.”
Prominent ‘gender-critical’ activist and author Helen Joyce described the tweet as “creepy” and said it could “only be appealing to people (men) who aren’t in its target audience”. She claimed the tweet was “massively off-putting to the young girls it [Tampax] needs to convert into new customers”.
Anti-LGBT+ right-wing YouTuber Lauren Chen questioned on Twitter who thought “sexualising tampons while also making them gender neutral” was a “good idea”.
The tag was rife with people angry over Tampax’s use of gender-neutral language – a move that is inclusive of trans and non-binary people who are, frequently, left out of the conversation about periods.
It was also filled with hateful statements directed at popular LGBTQ+ activists and TikTokers Dylan Mulvaney and Jeffrey Marsh, neither of which were directly linked to Tampax’s Monday tweet.
Many people rightfully pushed back at the outrage against Tampax’s tweet, saying “transphobic bigots” and “TERFs” need to be quiet.
https://twitter.com/HotTerfTakes/status/1595110148204564480
Has anyone else noticed that the people screaming #BoycottTampax aren’t really upset about the joke? They’re actually a bunch of transphobic bigots attacking a company that showed support for a group of people they like to be cruel to. To the weak minded, ignorant bullies🖕🏽🖕🏽
— ChicanaVeganⓋ🌱🟦🌻🎗️🐳 (@Elepitts1997) November 22, 2022
Can't believe #BoycottTampax is trending.
This shit is funny. We need to destigmatize female sexuality, periods, and period sex. Tampons go in vaginas. Chill out.#Tampax https://t.co/HZF535VXlX— NapQueen3000 🏳️🌈🏴 (@napqueen3000) November 22, 2022
https://twitter.com/AlexChowStuart/status/1595096559292944386
Fed up with the #BoycottTampax comments. They sponsor a trans woman because she was once asked in a bathroom if she had a tampon & realised to be an awesome part of the community of women she should carry tampons for other women – just like I – a menopausal woman- do. https://t.co/dPjgO6VFSA— Fiona 🇨🇦🏴🇺🇦 (@Fincansco) November 22, 2022
#BoycottTampax is just more anti-Trans bullshit.
There are more than two genders. People get periods. Get over it.
The best part about this is that now I’ve discovered the @Tampax Twitter account and it is 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Carry on.— Eunic Epstein-Ortiz (@eunicortiz) November 22, 2022
Mulvaney claimed in a March video on TikTok to have received a partnership offer from Tampax, but it’s unclear if this was true or if she accepted it.
Marsh has worked with period brands This is L and The Phluid Project, but they have never been sponsored by Tampax.
Tampax simply responded to the backlash with a simple tweet, saying they “refused to let twitter shut down before [they] shared this tweet”.
Some people got wild for a ‘boycott’ hashtag
In October, conservatives called for a boycott of Ulta Beauty after Mulvaney was featured in an episode of the brand’s official podcast. Amid the backlash, Estée Lauder then came under similar fire for featuring a trans employee in its spring-2022 ad campaign.
Tampax was at the centre of a different Twitter pile-on in 2020 after it celebrated the company’s inclusive stance on people who experience menstrual cycles.
That same year, anti-trans voices raged about British health and beauty retailer Superdrug launching inclusive period products for “people who menstruate”.
