Big Brother’s Nadia Almada: 20 years after winning show, I’m despondent over trans rights in UK
In 2004, Nadia Almada, a proud trans woman, won the biggest reality show in the UK, Big Brother. Almost two decades on, she discusses how the nation has slid backwards on trans rights, and why the prime minister has “blood on his hands”.
Nadia captured viewersā hearts as one of Big Brother’s most radiant, glamorous contestants ever when she competed in ā and won ā the fifth series.
For queer people coming of age, it was a watershed moment. Nadia was, for many, their first glimpse at trans representation on television.
Though Nadia didn’t discuss her gender with her housemates, she was introduced to viewers as a trans woman.
āWhen I did the show, my T&C, my small print was: Iām coming in as Nadia, Nadia Almada. It was never meant to be a secret,ā she tells PinkNews.
The media, she says, focused heavily on the fact she hadn’t spoken about being trans with her housemates and “kind of made it into a secret, because trans people are supposed to be a secret, fetishised”.
“I just wanted to strip away all the layers that had been given to me throughout the years,” she adds.
āAnd then for the first time, I saw that show, I saw the essence of the show which is that kind of interactions and relationship-building, the humour and just being oneās true self.Ā And I needed that to fully understand who I am.”
When Nadia came out of the house, victorious, she was met with love and adoration from the majority of fans.
“I had to process the acceptance and love from the people, from the fans of the show, from the nation ā both countries, Portugal and the UK.ā
It was something that felt new to her. Living in the UK, at the time, there were no protections for trans people from discrimination ā the Equality Act was six years away ā and she would be “called all types of things on the streetsā.Ā
It was a hard experience for her, but she came to āreclaim the powerā of being trans. Now, she empowers herself with the knowledge that she is Nadia Almada, a trans woman.Ā
Almost two decades on from her Big Brother win, it seems surreal that a trans woman was able to compete on ā and win ā such a high-profile TV show without intense blowback from the media, politicians and society.
Sadly, support for trans people and their rights has been on the decline in the UK for a number of years, fuelled by right-wing newspapers, news channels and politicians who’ve decided to use trans people as culture war fodder.
Nadia is āvery aware of the current climateā in the British media. She says it’s ādehumanising our communityā and the person that she is āso proudā to have become. She looks at it asĀ ārecycled homophobiaāĀ perpetuated by those in power.Ā
She points to Rishi Sunak, who was heard mocking trans women in video obtained exclusively by PinkNews in June.
āWhen you have a not-elected prime minister thatĀ makes derogatory comments about trans womenĀ and body parts and all that stuff, thatās not a good light,” she says.
Of Sunak and other “trans-exclusionary” voices, Nadia adds: “They are very much creating a narrative of predators, of sexualisation, of vulnerable people, of the mutilation of kids ā all of these things.Ā
āBut theyāre not sitting down and having a conversation. They donāt want to listen.Ā
āThey have this narrative, and theyāre gonna go all the way with that.Ā And Iām not OK with that. I am very despondent with that. Itās almost like divide and conquerā¦ Thatās why we, more than ever, itās important to have trans visibility and trans representation in the media, in our politics, in our schools, in everywhere, in every facet of our lives.Ā
āBecause guess what? Weāre not going anywhere. We are your cousins. We are your mothers. We are your wives. We are your aunties. We are divine entities.ā
Nadia says whatās truly āscaryā is that people who speak out against the trans community, like the prime minister, have children who could grow up to be part of the LGBTQ+ community. So their words now are āharming their own childrenā.Ā
āWhen they look down at their children and put them to bed, that [could be] a non-binary person in your future. That is maybe a genderqueer person in the future. So theyāre not [just] harming us, but theyāre harming their own children as well. We come from all facets of life, and the blood is on their hands.”
Nadia Almada spoke to PinkNews on behalf ofĀ ICE 36.
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